Think With Your Head To Get Your Ex Back
Breakup is painful whether it happens between friends, relatives, lovers or spouses. But, breakups between lovers or couples are something unique. If you are one among such couples and if you are really serious about patching up and getting your ex back, you should know the following points:
- The first thing you should understand is that breakup is a common thing that happens to many couples. Though you may have a feeling that you are mainly responsible for the split, apologies alone will not work for a patch-up and for getting your ex back. You will certainly make a lot of promises when you apologize. You may assure your ex that you will not commit the mistake that has led to the split again. You may also assure that things will be different henceforth and so on. But, these may not get you the results you expect.
- Of course, you should know the reasons for the split. The very fact that you are trying for a reunion shows that you are not able to bear the breakup and that you have a feeling that living without your ex is impossible. Only if you know the reasons for the split, you can make the required changes to your approach. In other words, you should stop being emotional and start thinking with your head.
- Before making your moves, you should accept the reality that a breakup has already happened. You should gracefully accept the decision made by your ex. You should also respect that like you, your ex also has a right to have feelings and opinions. So, you should avoid the age-old strategy of finding fault with him or her. You should most importantly avoid using manipulative techniques.
- Once you understand that a breakup, whether it is temporary or permanent, has already occurred, you should focus on ways to get your partner back. Statistics show that most of the splits are reversible. But, at the same time, many couples fail to make a patch-up because they behave irrationally. They are guided by their emotions and not by their heads. That is the reason you are advised to think impartially and analyze the reasons for the split. If you do such an analysis, you may come to know that the reasons may be very trivial or subtle. More often than not, the reasons may not be what you presume them to be.
- The most important point you should understand is that you can not expect instant results. That is why you are advised to refrain from trying to talk to your ex for convincing him or her. You should also not try to call, send messages through phone or email and so on. Your ex may become more rigid if you adopt these strategies.
- You should be positive-minded because such a mindset will not only boost your confidence but will help you to think clearly also. You must be prudent enough to understand that a breakup can only be temporary and it is a just a warning that the relationship process needs a little tinkering.
- Experts on relationships advise that you should behave and show to your ex that living without him or her is certainly possible for you. Your ex may certainly be impressed if your positive attitude is clearly "visible". Your ex may not expect that you will exhibit such an unusual behavior. It may make him or her less strong. He or she may start desiring to have you back also.
- The next step is that you can start mixing with common friends. If you mix more with friends of the opposite sex, your ex may start paying more attention to you. This is a time-tested strategy and your ex may start influencing you through many ways. He or she may send feelers through common friends or relatives. You may start getting greetings, messages and so on. It is at this stage you can be certain that patch-up is imminent. You should not squander this opportunity by showing your rigidity. You should work in a subtle manner and see that you get him or her back.
- The first thing you should understand is that breakup is a common thing that happens to many couples. Though you may have a feeling that you are mainly responsible for the split, apologies alone will not work for a patch-up and for getting your ex back. You will certainly make a lot of promises when you apologize. You may assure your ex that you will not commit the mistake that has led to the split again. You may also assure that things will be different henceforth and so on. But, these may not get you the results you expect.
- Of course, you should know the reasons for the split. The very fact that you are trying for a reunion shows that you are not able to bear the breakup and that you have a feeling that living without your ex is impossible. Only if you know the reasons for the split, you can make the required changes to your approach. In other words, you should stop being emotional and start thinking with your head.
- Before making your moves, you should accept the reality that a breakup has already happened. You should gracefully accept the decision made by your ex. You should also respect that like you, your ex also has a right to have feelings and opinions. So, you should avoid the age-old strategy of finding fault with him or her. You should most importantly avoid using manipulative techniques.
- Once you understand that a breakup, whether it is temporary or permanent, has already occurred, you should focus on ways to get your partner back. Statistics show that most of the splits are reversible. But, at the same time, many couples fail to make a patch-up because they behave irrationally. They are guided by their emotions and not by their heads. That is the reason you are advised to think impartially and analyze the reasons for the split. If you do such an analysis, you may come to know that the reasons may be very trivial or subtle. More often than not, the reasons may not be what you presume them to be.
- The most important point you should understand is that you can not expect instant results. That is why you are advised to refrain from trying to talk to your ex for convincing him or her. You should also not try to call, send messages through phone or email and so on. Your ex may become more rigid if you adopt these strategies.
- You should be positive-minded because such a mindset will not only boost your confidence but will help you to think clearly also. You must be prudent enough to understand that a breakup can only be temporary and it is a just a warning that the relationship process needs a little tinkering.
- Experts on relationships advise that you should behave and show to your ex that living without him or her is certainly possible for you. Your ex may certainly be impressed if your positive attitude is clearly "visible". Your ex may not expect that you will exhibit such an unusual behavior. It may make him or her less strong. He or she may start desiring to have you back also.
- The next step is that you can start mixing with common friends. If you mix more with friends of the opposite sex, your ex may start paying more attention to you. This is a time-tested strategy and your ex may start influencing you through many ways. He or she may send feelers through common friends or relatives. You may start getting greetings, messages and so on. It is at this stage you can be certain that patch-up is imminent. You should not squander this opportunity by showing your rigidity. You should work in a subtle manner and see that you get him or her back.
Thanks to mother sunlight for the miracle she did for me. My husband has been cheating on our marriage yet I though he was been deceived by his mom. Unknown to me that he has been a womaniser. When I contact sunlight, the goddess told me about this I doubted. Then she asked me where is he? I told her, he's about to be going to a meeting that was 9months ago. Because he told me meeting because of sunlight words I tried to ask him the kinda meeting he was going but he never tell me nothing. Then goddess sunlight told me what to do to find out the truth. After he left, with his car that night, I also took my car then I followed him he didn't know because he never thought I could do something crazy like that. When he get to the hotel he packed the car and went inside. I have a spear key for his car so also he has mine that night, I also, drove in then I packed my car in the hotel and drive his car home. The next morning he came and I asked him. Honey where is your car? then he told me was attacked and was serious beaten by arm robbers I looked at him with tears he thought I felt sorry for the story he just told me then, he kissed me and said at least I still live it's okay. Then I deep my hands in my pocket and brought out his the spear key and I took him to the back of the house where I packed his car. When he saw the car he was confuse then I called my younger sister to drive me car home from the hotel. When she drove in with my car he was so surprised that the car he saw last night was mine. Just as the goddess said. I did everything and it was more like a dream. I never really believe that my husband has been cheating, all I thought about was, maybe it's the mom deceiving him. That morning I angrily went into my room and mailed mother sunlight everything that happened she laughed. Then I ask how I can forgive him because I don't feel like and because of my children if I just tell him that, he is forgiven he might play another drama on me. Then goddess sunlight now cast a spell and told me some spiritual words to say and told me somethings I need to do. She told me not to look at the mirror once I am done. I should just go and meet my husband. Then did everything she instructed me to do. Once I he sees me, he was moved by the beauty he sees in me then he knee down and said, you are so beautiful. normally my husband has never told me that ever since I gave birth but today the powers and the charms of sunlight that has cleaned him he swore never to live me alone again. He was fully charmed. And he was changed to my satisfaction. Then Right in my eyes I fall inlove with mother sunlight because of her powers and truthfulness. I've never see someone like her in my whole entire life. She is compassionate, kind, merciful and she is so caring and loving. Pls join me brethren in praise. If you however need her email please here it is. Sunlightspell@gmail.com. She is indeed a mother to the whole world she is truly a queen goddess of durga mother of the universe.
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