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Experts who have undertaken a thorough study of the ways of the most successful people point out that there is one secret that has catapulted these people to such an enviable level. If you know this secret and adopt it diligently, you can achieve success also. Let us find out more about this. It is not that the highly successful people have been achieving success after success in all their endeavors and that they have never tasted failures. In reality, they have committed mistakes and failed many a time as well. After all, they are also normal human beings. There is nothing extraordinary about them. Nor all of them are prodigies or geniuses. So, there may be several occasions during which they may have faltered. But they do not allow these setbacks to upset them or discourage them. Instead, they study their setbacks and find out the reasons that have caused them. They vow to themselves that they will never commit the same mistakes ever again. For example, an athlete who is training fo

During the 1990s, I was an unhappy person. In fact, I was so unhappy that I used to wonder if my life had any meaning. I still remember how I would wake up in the middle of the night and spend the rest of the nights worrying - worrying about my future, worrying about my past and the mistakes I had committed, and worrying about my unfulfilled dreams. This had been going on until 1995. One fine day, I decided that enough was enough and I should put a stop to my worrying nature. If I did not do it, I would go insane, I thought. But I did not know how I should go about this. It was then I serendipitously discovered a formula that would help me lead a worry-free life .  It was not that I hit a jackpot and got troves of money that would solve all my financial woes. Neither did I get a magic wand that could drive out all the issues I was facing. But it was a chance meeting with one of my acquaintances that helped me make the discovery.  I was having a casual chat with this person. During the

Though almost everyone knows that learning should never stop till the last breath, it may be wrong to assume that all those who advocate this principle follow it. If you observe the ways of highly successful people, you will find that they never hesitate to learn new things. They firmly believe that continuous learning will help them sustain their winning ways. In fact, they so strongly stick to this approach that they never miss any opportunity to learn. Amazingly, they do not give importance to the source from which they have to learn. They listen attentively to everyone who provides them with suggestions or ideas regardless of their status. Even while listening, they make it a point to keep their minds open. Further, they refrain from judging the suggestions or ideas immediately.  Though experts keep telling us that we should learn from great and successful people and try to emulate them, we should not overlook the fact that even those who are much below us can be a good source of

Several so-called experts have been misguiding us for many years that separation or divorce can be a wiser option, especially to protect children from the agony of being a victim of never-ending arguments at home. But researches done in recent years have proved otherwise. In fact, these researchers have proved that the decision of the married partners to separate is a faulty one. Children living with a single parent who is separated from the other partner are likely to be affected seriously. Let us find out more about this. Separation or divorce may appear to be a good solution but it's not. Just a casual study of the present-day context reveals that hundreds of thousands of couples make a swift and perhaps, impulsive decision to go for divorce or separation because they wrongly assume that marital happiness is missing in their lives. They think that the decision will be beneficial to their kids as well. Of course, it is not right to blame them because according to them, peace of

Why do you face criticism? Do you think that others are right in criticizing you churlishly? What should you do for handling criticisms? Let us find out. Experts point out that if you are constantly being criticized by a few folks, it shows that these folks are nervous either about your competence, knowledge, or intelligence or about your good looks. By criticizing you, they try to find a level-playing field. Of course, there may be a few others who are genuinely concerned about your wellbeing. They may criticize you with an aim to bring about transformations or improvements in you. This means there may be some merit in their criticism.  There can be yet another group of people who always wish to show that they are always in charge of things. They want to prove their superiority by criticizing you. A few others may feel insecure when you are around. They may criticize you because they aim to advance their positions or receive better favors from others than what you get. In a nutshell

As an ambitious individual, you may have set your eyes on high goals . But if you have average habits, it may be very difficult for you to achieve those goals. In other words, you should get rid of those average habits, and only then, you can cultivate extraordinary habits. Only after you "imbibe" these extraordinary habits, you can become a high performer and achieve your big goals.  The question now is what are the habits that make you an average person. Let us find out. "Average" Habits Unfortunately, the impact of these average habits is too subtle to be felt which means you will not be ashamed or feel guilty about following those habits or behaviors. Thanks to such obliviousness, you will continue with these behaviors. Therefore, you may often be wondering why you are not able to move even an inch towards your goals despite putting forth the so-called required efforts. This may lead to frustration. Some of you may even decide to quit as well.  As experts point

Almost every one of us wants to become rich . But unfortunately, we do not know the reason why we want to become rich. Sometimes and when I sit alone, I used to wonder if the aim to become rich has any purpose. This post discusses some of the thoughts that often spill out of my skull. Please read on. You, like millions of others who live on this planet, may say that you want to become rich for enjoying the best of life's experiences. Most of life's experiences come under the following categories: 1. You want to have a sleep of the highest quality. The importance of sleep need not be over-emphasized. Though a number of people commit the mistake of neglecting it and do not bestow much importance on sleep, they also admit that quality sleep improves their productivity levels and rejuvenates them. But what do you need for having such good sleep? You obviously need a good and comfortable mattress. How much does such a mattress cost? Even casual research will reveal that you can get

Do you have a scarcity or "have-not" mentality? If so, you may not be ready to believe that you can earn large amounts of money . Similarly, if you are in the habit of worrying about everything, you will never believe that there are people who are always happy regardless of the difficult situations they face in their lives.  What does this mean? This means that you are focusing on the wrong things. In the first instance, you are choosing scarcity instead of abundance. In the latter case, your focus is on difficulties and not on solutions. So, what is the remedy for this? It is by changing your mindset and focusing on the right things, you can have abundant wealth, enjoy great health, be happy always, and so on. Never forget the fact that what you focus on keeps expanding. But what are the ways to change your mindset? Hang around only those folks who are positive-minded. You should make it a point to hang around positive-minded people only. You may say that this is not possibl

Not many people are comfortable with keeping mum and not speaking anything. But certain occasions demand it. Let us find out what those occasions are. Keep mum when you get angry or are anxious. Anger is an emotion that can rob the peace of mind of people. In fact, there are several families and people who have lost their career or development opportunities and even their lives thanks to the negative impact of this emotion. Even if you get angry with your enemies or those who have harmed you, it is not they who will be affected. It is you and your health that will be negatively impacted.  The most important point you should remember is that things may not always go your way. When such situations arise, the first emotion you will have is "fear." But why at all do you fear? It is because of insecure feelings you will start fearing. There may be several reasons for such insecure feelings. Jealousy, constant thinking about the future, and "comparison syndrome" are maj

It is reliably learned that people stole Einstein's brain and did extensive research on it for knowing why he was more intelligent than billions of other humans. In fact, experts have set his intelligence as the "gold standard" which means that if anyone can reach that level, these experts will readily declare that the person is as intelligent as Einstein.  Now the question is: Can you improve your intelligence? If you know the ways and put them to use meticulously, you can pretty well be certain that it will be a life-transforming moment for you. The amazingly new approaches you will adopt and the versatile skills you will acquire with such a level of intelligence will arm you with unimaginably powerful ammunition to accomplish almost anything under the Sun. In short, you can create history with your intelligence. Top scientists have worked for more than half a century to find out if people can improve their intelligence and if so, what methods they should adopt. In thi