Cordially Yours

You have been making sincere efforts to achieve big growth , but you falter along your way. The reasons can be varied, but the fact remains that you are not able to achieve the goals or sub-goals you have set. You get stuck. The roughness of your failure has bruised your mind. So, you are no longer in the mood to move forward. You now feel that your failure is an ominous indication showing that you are facing an insurmountable obstacle to your growth. Is this situation real, or can you move ahead despite the failure that hit you hard? The answer is: Yes. This situation may be real, but it is not insurmountable. This means you can return gallantly to the path that will take you towards your goal. The main point to understand is that if you do not learn to bounce back after a setback, you will never achieve the growth you are aiming for. Not being able to bounce back is the biggest obstacle, and it is much bigger than all other hurdles you have faced or may face during your growth jo...

According to almost everyone, a comfortable life is one in which they have lots of money. The thought of leading such a comfortable life will make your neurons dance delightfully with a euphoric feeling. Let us for argument's sake assume that this is true. Who does not wish to lead such a comfortable life? But in the present circumstances, fulfilling this wish is not easy for everyone. This is not because there is a dearth of methods to earn good money but because some issue or another may rob people of peace of mind. So, the hot-button question now is: How can one fulfill his or her wish of leading a comfortable life? So, here are a few thoughts about this. There are two powerful methods to get hold of lots of money . But ironically, they consist of contrasting ingredients. Let us delve a little deeper. 1. This tip may sound philosophical to some people. But it is only partially so though there is always a raging debate about it. This tip mainly focuses on sustainabilit...

Several so-called experts have been misguiding us for many years that separation or divorce can be a wiser option, especially to protect children from the agony of being a victim of never-ending arguments at home. But researches done in recent years have proved otherwise. In fact, these researchers have proved that the decision of the married partners to separate is a faulty one. Children living with a single parent who is separated from the other partner are likely to be affected seriously. Let us find out more about this. Separation or divorce may appear to be a good solution but it's not. Just a casual study of the present-day context reveals that hundreds of thousands of couples make a swift and perhaps, impulsive decision to go for divorce or separation because they wrongly assume that marital happiness is missing in their lives. They think that the decision will be beneficial to their kids as well. Of course, it is not right to blame them because according to them,...

When you were a kid, you learned hundreds of things and several of them are lies. Unfortunately and thanks to your naivety, you started believing all of them including those lies. You may be believing a few of those lies even now also. If you want to know real facts, you have to deactivate those beliefs. What should you do for deactivating them? You should unlearn the lies . Let us look at some of the lies you might have learned and that you must unlearn.  1. A big lie about happiness. You may have been led to believe several things. Here is a classic example. Elders and parents, though their intention is not malicious and they want to genuinely protect you, may have led you to believe that if you study well and pass your examinations in flying colors, you can come up in life and earn well. So, when you do your schooling, you study hard and score high grades. Are you happy? You think you are. After your schooling, you enroll yourself in a reputed university. But due to various extr...

Have people become less accommodative? Statistics show that there has been a massive increase in divorce rates in the US in recent years. Even in some of the Asian countries that include India, where family values are said to be respected and cherished, there has been a significant increase in the divorce rates. This may perhaps be due to the so-called "Westernization" of societies. The reason may also be ego clashes or the so-called " incompatibility ." But why do such splits take place? Is it possible to avoid them? Can couples lead a happy and peaceful life?  The answer is "Yes. It is possible for couples to lead a happy and peaceful married life." The following tips may help. 1. Never, never try to bring about a change in your partner. You may think that you can bring about a change in the attitude of your partner. But remember your partner may also be having a similar idea. In reality, neither you nor your partner can bring about a change in the other...

It is often said that you can learn something from everyone you meet. But most of us do not realize that we can learn from animals including our pets as well. To quote an example, if you have a dog in your home, you can learn a few lessons from the animal also. Let us now discuss some of the lessons you can learn from your dog.  1. It is impossible to control others. As the owner of the dog, when you take the animal out, you will find that most of the times, you cannot control him. Of course, he may be under leash but at times, you may have to use all your strength to prevent him from pouncing upon the strangers he does not like or some food item someone has discarded on the sidewalks. To put it precisely, thanks to the animal's canine instincts, your dog may refuse to be the best-behaved one even if you want him to be. The inference is that you cannot control the behavior of others including that of your pet. Apart from not being able to control those around you,...