Cordially Yours

Everyone's life will be full of ups and downs, and there is no exception to this. But, you may find that some people are always positive , irrespective of the situations that confront them. They approach every situation and task with a positive and enthusiastic attitude. Their body language will reveal that they are capable of completing the tasks they have undertaken. How is this possible only for these people? Can you emulate them and become an "I can" person? The following tips may be helpful. 1. Refrain from hitting the panic button. People, and this may include you as well, get upset as soon as they face a problem. You may argue that it is impossible not to get upset when a problem stares you in your face. It is not necessary to panic. Remember that it will disturb your focus. Never forget the fact that "nothing lasts forever." The issue may be resolved, or the problem may disappear by itself. So, eschew the habit of panicking. Instead, focus on what steps ...

Almost everyone including those who have embraced renunciation and those of the mundane type has goals. Since every individual is unique, the goals of people vary also. Unfortunately, not all people achieve their goals. You may wonder why the number of people who fail is much higher than those who are successful. This post may throw light upon this phenomenon and show how to achieve success .  Is having goals good or not? Having goals in life is certainly good. But will it alone get you the success you aspire for? The answer is a resounding "No." You may now ask: "Then, why the heck experts including the troglodytes and the contemporary gurus are asking us to have goals in life?" According to them, if your mind consistently focuses on your goals, you will hit upon ideas to achieve them. But the reality is completely at variance with what they opine.   Why are you not getting results despite your focus on your goals? You have great ideas. You do not fail to seize wha...

You have set your goal and have started putting forth the efforts required to achieve it. You review your efforts periodically to ensure that everything is in order. According to you, everything is moving as you have planned. You are now half-way through in your journey. Suddenly, you have a nagging feeling that there is a loss of steam or things are not moving at the pace as before. You are obviously upset. What may be the reasons? What is holding you back from achieving the success you have been longing for and cherishing in your bosom? Let us find out.  The reasons may be: 1. After reaching a certain point, you have started indulging in what is known as "self-sabotage." True, you have put in place proper systems. But there is some lacuna due to which your plans fall through. You commit avoidable mistakes and these may decelerate the pace of your journey. 2. Not listening to the advice of experts in your field may be another reason for the retardation of your...