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Should you worry about how others judge you? The answer is an emphatic "NO." The point is the moment you stop worrying about criticisms or how others, including your close relatives and friends, judge you, you are fast-tracking your success. Further, you will be coming out with optimum output because you have unloaded the burden of getting the approval nods of others.  Let us assume you have made a big decision. Of course, you might have thought about it a thousand times before making it. But others may feel that your decision is goofy. So what? There is no need to worry about what they think because if you focus on what others feel, you suffer from temporary amnesia. Thanks to such obliviousness, you forget your goal or vision of your life. So, you cannot achieve it. The moral is that instead of worrying about what others feel or how others judge, you must keep taking all the steps required to achieve your goal. Reasons why you should stop worrying about judgmental...

Why do you face criticism? Do you think that others are right in criticizing you churlishly? What should you do for handling criticisms? Let us find out. Experts point out that if you are constantly being criticized by a few folks, it shows that these folks are nervous either about your competence, knowledge, or intelligence or about your good looks. By criticizing you, they try to find a level-playing field. Of course, there may be a few others who are genuinely concerned about your wellbeing. They may criticize you with an aim to bring about transformations or improvements in you. This means there may be some merit in their criticism.  There can be yet another group of people who always wish to show that they are always in charge of things. They want to prove their superiority by criticizing you. A few others may feel insecure when you are around. They may criticize you because they aim to advance their positions or receive better favors from others than what you get. ...