Cordially Yours

Regardless of whether you have a firsthand experience or an indirect one, you may have concluded that there are useless people in every field. This conclusion clearly shows that you firmly believe that you belong to a select group of the elite or intelligenstia. Experts do not approve of such thinking. According to them, no person on this planet is perfect. If you consider imperfect people useless, it is absolutely imperative that you should immediately do an introspection. You may have several negative habits or behaviors, and so, there is no use in pointing fingers at others. The corollary to this is that you cannot correct others' behaviors. The only course availale to you is that you have to make amends to your ways. But unfortunately, there is no napalm that can quickly help you dispense with your negative habits or behaviors. This means that you should consistently strive to improve yourself.  Once you realize that you are not a perfect person, you must s...

You, like many other people, may nurture a genuine wish to improve your life. The very thought of leading such a life may stimulate you. "Decoding the ways to improve your life is not difficult at all. If I work hard, I can achieve this aim," may be your strong belief. If you are an advocate of such an opinion, please remember that this is the very opinion that may handcuff you. You must get yourself unshackled. Otherwise, you may find it hard to achieve your wish. Why should there be such a difficulty? The reason is that unless you build a strong and disciplined character devoid of pettyfogging activities, you cannot improve your life. This statement need not put you in despair. You do not need to commiserate as well. The reason is that if you build your character, you can become a horseshoe that immediately attracts a fulfilled and improved life.   Of course, some people lead an undisciplined but good life. But remember that the good life they lead is sel...

The other day I was reading an article on Harry Browne , a presidential candidate of the Libertarian Party in the 1996 and 2000 elections. The article provided a host of information about him and it contained his Self-Eulogy as well. I am reproducing it here.  ------------ Harry Browne wrote this and he wanted it to be read when his funeral services were held. "Setting Your Sights As I look back over my life, I can see so many ways in which I could have done things better than I did, and I certainly wish I'd learned a lot of things sooner than I did. And yet I have enjoyed a wonderful life. I'm married to the ideal woman. I have had the good fortune to be associated in business with highly competent, honest, compatible people. I've had a book that was #1 on the best-seller list, and others that sold well above average. I've had first-class friends in many different areas of my life. I've been able to live in three countries and enjoy the best the world has to o...

According to experts who have studied successful people, a number of factors contribute to their success . The main factors these experts list out are the attitude of these folks, their people skills, their ability and readiness to lead from the front, their eagerness to listen, and above all, their willingness to take responsibility for their actions and decisions. But recent studies have revealed that there is a very important attribute that is commonly found in almost all the successful people. The attribute is that successful people manage their emotions very well and they do not wilt under pressure, They remain calm in any situation, says Travis Bradberry in one of his posts on LinkedIn. Travis Bradberry is the president of TalentSmart and he has coauthored a book entitled "Emotional Intelligence 2.0." Bradberry has followed up with another post recently and in this new post, he explains that how you manage your emotions involves what you refrain from doing as ...