You, like many other people, may nurture a genuine wish to improve your life. The very thought of leading such a life may stimulate you. "Decoding the ways to improve your life is not difficult at all. If I work hard, I can achieve this aim," may be your strong belief. If you are an advocate of such an opinion, please remember that this is the very opinion that may handcuff you. You must get yourself unshackled. Otherwise, you may find it hard to achieve your wish. Why should there be such a difficulty? The reason is that unless you build a strong and disciplined character devoid of pettyfogging activities, you cannot improve your life. This statement need not put you in despair. You do not need to commiserate as well. The reason is that if you build your character, you can become a horseshoe that immediately attracts a fulfilled and improved life.
Of course, some people lead an undisciplined but good life. But remember that the good life they lead is seldom permanent. They may fall sick or lose whatever they have in their possession, and so on. This means that if you want to lead a long-lasting, good life, you need to build your character. The following few points may help.
1. The foremost step is that you should have the courage of conviction to set workable goals. If you set a huge goal, you may very soon get frustrated. On the other hand, if you set small and achievable sub-goals, you will find them easy to achieve. Apart from giving you a sense of satisfaction and accomplishment, this step will keep you motivated. To summarize this point, please bear in mind that you can never get instant results. You have to
work consistently and with focus. Only then can you see tangible results.
2. You must avoid a few mistakes as well. They are:
a) Aiming to do every task perfectly.
Doing your tasks perfectly is a pipedream. There are bound to be errors along your way. There can be several hurdles as well. You must keep learning from your errors or the hurdles you face. In fact, experts call errors or hurdles learning experiences. But you must ensure not to commit the same mistakes again.
b) Underestimating the importance of the steps.
Remember that no task is unimportant. You should bestow your sincere attention on all the tasks, regardless of their size or the duration they may take to complete.
c) Refusing to take advice from others.
While undertaking your journey to build your character, you may be receiving advice from almost all quarters. Of course, not all the suggestions you get may be worth adopting. But there may be a few that may fetch you great results. So, you should be open-minded, choose the right suggestions, and discard the ones that may not be suitable for you.
3. Most importantly, you should realize that your perspective is not the only one that can help you. There can be as many perspectives that may be useful to you as there are experts. So, you should be ready to rid yourself of your ego and use the perspectives of the most suitable people. In other words, using "outside eyes" will greatly help you in treading your path smoothly. This step will accelerate the results you desire to have as well.
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