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As an ambitious individual, you may have set your eyes on high goals . But if you have average habits, it may be very difficult for you to achieve those goals. In other words, you should get rid of those average habits, and only then, you can cultivate extraordinary habits. Only after you "imbibe" these extraordinary habits, you can become a high performer and achieve your big goals.  The question now is what are the habits that make you an average person. Let us find out. "Average" Habits Unfortunately, the impact of these average habits is too subtle to be felt which means you will not be ashamed or feel guilty about following those habits or behaviors. Thanks to such obliviousness, you will continue with these behaviors. Therefore, you may often be wondering why you are not able to move even an inch towards your goals despite putting forth the so-called required efforts. This may lead to frustration. Some of you may even decide to quit as well.  As experts point ...

Almost every one of us wants to become rich . But unfortunately, we do not know the reason why we want to become rich. Sometimes and when I sit alone, I used to wonder if the aim to become rich has any purpose. This post discusses some of the thoughts that often spill out of my skull. Please read on. You, like millions of others who live on this planet, may say that you want to become rich for enjoying the best of life's experiences. Most of life's experiences come under the following categories: 1. You want to have a sleep of the highest quality. The importance of sleep need not be over-emphasized. Though a number of people commit the mistake of neglecting it and do not bestow much importance on sleep, they also admit that quality sleep improves their productivity levels and rejuvenates them. But what do you need for having such good sleep? You obviously need a good and comfortable mattress. How much does such a mattress cost? Even casual research will reveal that you can get...

Do you have a scarcity or "have-not" mentality? If so, you may not be ready to believe that you can earn large amounts of money . Similarly, if you are in the habit of worrying about everything, you will never believe that there are people who are always happy regardless of the difficult situations they face in their lives.  What does this mean? This means that you are focusing on the wrong things. In the first instance, you are choosing scarcity instead of abundance. In the latter case, your focus is on difficulties and not on solutions. So, what is the remedy for this? It is by changing your mindset and focusing on the right things, you can have abundant wealth, enjoy great health, be happy always, and so on. Never forget the fact that what you focus on keeps expanding. But what are the ways to change your mindset? Hang around only those folks who are positive-minded. You should make it a point to hang around positive-minded people only. You may say that this is not possibl...

Not many people are comfortable with keeping mum and not speaking anything. But certain occasions demand it. Let us find out what those occasions are. Keep mum when you get angry or are anxious. Anger is an emotion that can rob the peace of mind of people. In fact, there are several families and people who have lost their career or development opportunities and even their lives thanks to the negative impact of this emotion. Even if you get angry with your enemies or those who have harmed you, it is not they who will be affected. It is you and your health that will be negatively impacted.  The most important point you should remember is that things may not always go your way. When such situations arise, the first emotion you will have is "fear." But why at all do you fear? It is because of insecure feelings you will start fearing. There may be several reasons for such insecure feelings. Jealousy, constant thinking about the future, and "comparison syndrome" are maj...

It is reliably learned that people stole Einstein's brain and did extensive research on it for knowing why he was more intelligent than billions of other humans. In fact, experts have set his intelligence as the "gold standard" which means that if anyone can reach that level, these experts will readily declare that the person is as intelligent as Einstein.  Now the question is: Can you improve your intelligence? If you know the ways and put them to use meticulously, you can pretty well be certain that it will be a life-transforming moment for you. The amazingly new approaches you will adopt and the versatile skills you will acquire with such a level of intelligence will arm you with unimaginably powerful ammunition to accomplish almost anything under the Sun. In short, you can create history with your intelligence. Top scientists have worked for more than half a century to find out if people can improve their intelligence and if so, what methods they should adopt. In thi...

The thoughts about the problems you are facing are certainly unpleasant. They may make you sad as well. These thoughts may pertain to an argument you have had with your spouse, an offending remark by your superior at your workplace, a rejection by the person whom you love, or a disturbing news story you read in the morning newspaper. These thoughts may not impact you if they remain in your mind for a brief period. But if they continue to plague your mind for a prolonged period of time, you should certainly take steps to drive them away. Blocking thoughts from your mind is a challenging proposition because those thoughts always have the trait of rebounding and haunting you. But there is good news because it is possible to block such thoughts. Remember that by preventing these thoughts from occupying your mind and diluting your focus, you can de-clutter your mind and this will go a long way in helping you accomplish great feats. On the contrary, if you keep thinking about the issues...

When you were a kid, you learned hundreds of things and several of them are lies. Unfortunately and thanks to your naivety, you started believing all of them including those lies. You may be believing a few of those lies even now also. If you want to know real facts, you have to deactivate those beliefs. What should you do for deactivating them? You should unlearn the lies . Let us look at some of the lies you might have learned and that you must unlearn.  1. A big lie about happiness. You may have been led to believe several things. Here is a classic example. Elders and parents, though their intention is not malicious and they want to genuinely protect you, may have led you to believe that if you study well and pass your examinations in flying colors, you can come up in life and earn well. So, when you do your schooling, you study hard and score high grades. Are you happy? You think you are. After your schooling, you enroll yourself in a reputed university. But due to various extr...